Further to the mention of the spat below, there are days when one wonders if everyone commenting or blogging has oppositional defiance disorder.
A commenter on one of the sites that is in er, serious discussion about some US church leaders asked a valuable question, that got a bit buried in the er, um, ensuing debate.

What is the difference between criticism and judging?

You know what?
It’s an excellent question.
It starts with you.
The Apologetics Index has an excellent series of articles on this topic.

A Critical Spirit by George Watson
Do You Have a Critical Spirit? by Dale Robbins
Fabar on Judging
Two Kinds of Judging
What to do about Criticism by James Ryle
When Christians Fight Christians by Tim Stafford
A Gentle Spirit by George Watson

It’s a page I keep bookmarked because I need to relearn over and over.