Long and Winding Road is a blog by a foster mom.
It seems like Little Boy Blue is getting more and more comfortable with us and our ways. He arrived with a great deal of stiffness and rigidity in his body. This is very common for babies who were exposed to drugs in utero (more on this topic later in the week as I try to answer the ‘Big Questions’). He has relaxed quite a bit today. We were trained in all of the exercises to help a baby relax and become more limber and will continue with him, just as we did with Baby Girl.
America* has nearly 115,000 orphaned kids in foster care waiting to be adopted. Some wonder how this is possible in a country with Christian families. Surely, there are 115,000 missional families in America, right? Missional families, for example, embrace the redemptive mission of God and practice “true religion” in their local communities (James 1:27). Missional Christians in America could eliminate the foster care system tomorrow if we would stop “shootin’ up” with the American Dream (heroine) in order to get high on a lame life lived for the sake of comfort and ease.
“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world,” writes James (1:27). As a matter of fact, the Bible has over 40 verses mandating God’s people to look after orphans and the fatherless for various reasons.
According to the American Religious Identity Survey, conducted by the City University of New York, there are over 224 million Christians in the United States. So, why are there 115,000 orphans in a country that has over 224 million Christians?
Since God’s people have always been called to live missionally we are not surprised to see that James is not saying anything new. “When you harvest the grapes in your vineyard, do not go over the vines again. Leave what remains for the alien, the fatherless and the widow” (Deuteronomy 24:21).
Let’s break this down further. The Washington Times reports that there are about 65 million evangelicals in America. So, again, why are there 115,000 orphans in America’s foster care system? Does this mean that there are 65 million people missing huge sections of their Bibles? Would someone please alert Crossway and Zondervan!
*70 thousand Canadian kids (Adoption Council of Canada)
God’s Spirit beckons. There are things to do and places to go!
This resurrection life you received from God is not a timid, grave-tending life. It’s adventurously expectant, greeting God with a childlike “What’s next, Papa?” God’s Spirit touches our spirits and confirms who we really are. We know who he is, and we know who we are: Father and children. Romans 8: 15-17 The Message
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If 1% of the evangelical families (let’s say 10 million for a round number) are willing to adopt one of those kids, we have the problem licked. The adoption rate in churches I’ve attended recently have been much higher than that. Folks are willing to step up to the plate of adopting, but often keep getting brush-back pitches from the system.
In many cases, kids wait in foster care because the system hasn’t given up on their biological parents. Many “orphans” still have living parents that may be too many problems (psychological and/or substance abuse issues) to currently be good parents, but not so far gone that the system is willing to nullify their parental rights.
At my old church in Midland, one couple took years to get to adopt the kids they were fostering, mainly because the system wasn’t ready to give up on the biological mom.